Loneliness has never been a problem for me. I thought I had been alone in the past, and I have always had an active life. I’ve played sports, have read hundreds of books, and traveled a lot. Most importantly, I have been using my imagination and thinking a lot.
Soon, I will be married for 20 years. However, Sometimes I feel the same as I am alone. Maybe now you think that makes no sense here, right?
Let me explain.
If you learn to accept yourself, your own mistakes, and your strengths, everything is more manageable. Too often, we let the environment or society dictate how we should live. Loneliness can be mistaken. Maybe even abnormal. When we are growing up, we are taught that we will meet the right person and start a family. This may not be suitable for all people. My luck was that family life is right for me.
However, I know a lot of people who are not capable of so-called everyday family life. Maybe they should never start a family. Although I have a wife and two children, I also need to be alone. When I’m alone, I can get new thoughts and ideas. Loneliness is also a way of recharging your batteries.
Why are some people lonely?
Everyone has their reasons, but I think the most critical factor is a lack of courage. Many people are too shy or timid to start a new relationship. When I was younger, I was too quiet and shy. However, I realized pretty quickly that if I wanted to find the right person next to me, then I had to change. Everything happens step by step. I had to go beyond my limits.
I had to overcome my fears and thoughts. Now that I think about it afterward, it wasn’t that hard. The hardest thing was to take that first step.
Today I am a different person.
The answer is easy. I know myself.